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How Your Life Feels is More Important Than How it Looks
The trauma of the Millennial generation
I was making the best of my summer holidays on the balcony with a book when the neighbour’s kids showed up, smartphones in hand, discussing the latest Gigi Hadid’s outing.
“Look how gorgeous she is!” one would say, followed by the “omg! she’s so thin! I wish I looked like her” from one of the chubbier girls, eyes glistening, already seeing herself wearing nothing more than crop tops without the fear of embarrassment.
Do you remember what it feels like to meet with friends in the neighbourhood, for a soccer game or a hide and seek that lasted all day? Or the simple being together without cellphone beeping, no notifications stealing our time together, our focus on each other’s faces.
I feel lucky. As a Millennial growing up alongside the Internet and technology, it’s easier for me to not rely on my phone for every single thing. I know how to sit at a restaurant with friends without checking my notifications every few minutes; I know how to have fun at the beach with a ball or just with the company of my friends.
I know how to not always immortalize a moment for the Internet to see and feel like someone, on the other side, is missing out on something.
